Thoughts from a Childless Woman!

If going through miscarriage, infertility, failed fertility treatments, and ultimately accepting a childless life taught me anything, it’s this: it’s important to cry. For a long time, I believed I had to be strong.  Strong for my partner.  Strong for my family, friends and colleagues.  Strong for everyone who didn’t know what to say or how to show up. So I pretended I was okay. I swallowed my pain. I held it together in public and fell apart quietly—if at all—behind closed d

The New Year has a way of magnifying everything. For so many people, January represents hope, fresh starts, and excitement for what’s to come. But when you’re childless not by choice—or nearing the end of your fertility journey without a baby—the New Year can feel anything but hopeful. It can feel heavy, confronting, and painfully isolating. I know this because I’ve lived it. There was a time when January filled me with pressure. New year, new cycle, new treatment plan. I fel

For the longest time, I believed family was something you built only through children. It was the story I grew up with, the narrative that shaped adulthood, and the dream my husband and I carried together. So when infertility became our reality — and when we ultimately made the heartbreaking decision to stop treatment — I had to confront a fear I never expected: Who am I if I’m not a mother? And what does family even mean now? The shift didn’t happen overnight. It wasn’t a ne

For so long, I yearned, hoped, and dreamed of our rainbow baby. I thought if I didn’t think positively enough, I would somehow jinx us....

Choosing to step away from the fertility journey is one of the hardest decisions you might ever make, and if you’re feeling that weight,...

I get it—the childless not by choice journey is hard. 💔 It’s a kind of grief that’s often invisible to the world, yet it cuts deep....

There was a time when I couldn’t shake the feeling that I had failed. That I must have done something wrong. That I wasn’t enough. I had...

“Why don’t you just move on?”🙄 If only it were that simple, right? If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of this question after...

How many of us in the childless not by choice community have heard this? “You can have my kids.”“Take mine for the weekend — you’ll...

I’ve always been drawn to the idea that a simple shift in perception can create space for healing — especially when you’re faced with...

“Anything is possible.” “Just smile more and worry less.” “Never fold. Never back down.” “Hope is all you need.” These statements sound...

It’s no secret that life can be… unpredictable exciting disappointing thrilling scary adventurous and so much more! If you're anything...

There was a time — and honestly, many times — during my fertility journey and transition into a childless not by choice life, when I...

There’s a phrase many of us who are childless not by choice have heard more than once. It often slips out casually, without malice, but...

When I think back on the early days of our fertility journey, one memory always stands out to me. It was after our very first appointment...

This week is National Infertility Awareness Week , and the theme— Infertility Unfiltered —couldn’t be more fitting. Because if you’re...

I wish you hadn’t needed to find this blog. If you’re here, chances are you’ve endured one of the hardest experiences of your...

Infertility is one of the most deeply personal and emotionally charged experiences a person can go through. And yet, when we opened up...

Infertility is a journey of surrender. From the moment you step into a fertility clinic, you begin relinquishing control—over your body,...

Infertility is an experience that takes so much from you—physically, emotionally, and mentally. When you choose to pursue fertility...